Mary Wollstonecraft
The Female Reader: or Miscellaneous pieces in Prose and Verse:
Selected from the Best Writers, and Disposed under Proper Heads: for the
Improvement of Young Women .
(published under the name of Mr. Cresswick in 1789)
PREFACE
It is universally allowed that many poems, tales, and allegories, are
scattered through our best authors, particularly calculated to affect a
young heart and improve an opening understanding, which the gay and thoughtless
seldom have patience to look for, or discernment to select; and many collections
have been made, in order to present in one point of view the most useful
passages of many volumes, where various other subjects are mixed that were
only written for minds matured by experience.
Before the publication of Dr. Enfield's SPEAKER, a methodical order
in the arrangement of the pieces selected was not attempted, or even thought
of, though it is evidently the only way to render a book of this kind extensively
useful; as whatever tends to impress habits of order on the expanding mind
may be reckoned the most beneficial part of education: for by this means
the surest foundation of virtue is settled without a struggle, and strong
restraints knit together before vice has introduced confusion.
In the present volume, which is principally intended for the improvement
of females, the subjects are not only arranged in separate books, but are
carefully disposed in a series that tends to make them illustrate each
other; linking the detached pieces seemed to give an interest to the whole,
which even the slightest connexion will not fail to produce. The main object
of this work is to imprint some useful lessons on the mind, and cultivate
the taste at the same time - to infuse a relish for a pure and simple style,
by presenting natural and touching descriptions from the Scriptures, Shakspeare,
etc. Simplicity and sincerity generally go hand in hand, as both proceed
from a love of truth.
In subordination to this design, passages varying in style, in verse
and prose, have been chosen to enable a scholar to learn to read well:
and, at a time when female accomplishments are deemed of more consequence
than they ever were, the most essential demands some attention.
Females are not educated to become public speakers or players; though
many young ladies are now led by fashion to exhibit their persons on a
stage, sacrificing to mere vanity that diffidence and reserve which characterizes
youth, and is the most graceful ornament of the sex.
But if it be allowed to be a breach of modesty for a woman to obtrude
her person or talents on the public when necessity does not justify and
spur her on, yet to be able to read with propriety is certainly a very
desirable attainment: to facilitate this task, and exercise the voice,
many dialogues have been selected; but not always the most beautiful with
respect to composition, as the taste should very gradually be formed. A
contrary method may teach young people what to say; but probably will prevent
their ever learning to think. It would be needless to repeat here the trite
remark which proves an undeniable fact - that the ignorant never read with
propriety; and they must ever be accounted ignorant who are suddenly made
wise by the experience of others, never brought to a test by their own
feeble unexercised reason.
Some little helps to elocution are necessary even for those who never
aspire at being orators; but teachers should be very careful not to make
scholars practice rules they cannot understand, as monotony is less disgusting
than affectation.
In the beginning only prevent their acquiring bad habits; instruct them
in the common methods of observing stops and articulating each syllable;
and as the mind is stored with arranged knowledge they will insensibly
read well, interested by the sentiments they understand. To guard against
a dull indifferent tone, they should be allowed to read amusing tales,
allegories, etc. Reasoning must be tedious and irksome to those whose passions
have never led them to reason; and examples of virtue will ever most forcibly
illustrate precepts of morality.
In this selection many tales and tables will be found, as it seems to
be following the simple order of nature, to permit young people to peruse
works addressed to the imagination, which tend to awaken the affections
and fix good habits more firmly in the mind than cold arguments and mere
declamation.
It is scarcely necessary to make any apology for introducing the book
which contains devotional pieces. A late amiable writer has asserted that,
amidst the scenes of silent unobserved distress, in which women are very
frequently involved, religion is their only solace and support. They cannot,
when oppressed by sorrow, or harassed by wordly cares, fly to business
or those tumultuous pleasures which dissipate, if they do not calm, the
mind: condemned to fight on even ground and listen to the very echo of
their grief, piety alone can still the ery echo of their grief, piety alone
can still the murmurs of discontent, and give stability to their principles:
but piety is not to be acquired in the hour of trouble; it must have been
a cherished inmate of the soul, or it will not afford consolation when
every other source fails.
To fix devotional habits in a young mind, forms must in some degree
be attended to. Those who constantly make a point of repeating a prayer
at a stated time, though it may be termed mechanical devotion, yet learn
to consider it as a duty; and piety may imperceptibly warm the heart that
was at first unmoved by the task. It is however to be lamented that so
great a stress is laid on the mere act as to lead many to imagine that
they have made their peace with God, and may securely rely on his favour,
only because they punctually read over a long prayer, and observe the ceremonies
enjoined by religion to keep alive the vital spirit, which, amongst frail
mortals, stands in need of a bodily support to give it permanency and effect.
Obedience is the only daily incense pleasing to the Supreme Being. Yet
many women who constantly address him do not attempt to govern their tempers,
or render their dependents comfortable, though they think they are not
like other women on this very account; they go to church twice a week and
give alms.
Every thing then which tends to strengthen sentiments of piety, founded
on morality, not introduced in a gloomy dress, must be useful: and even
the imagination and affections should not be allowed to take another course;
for a character will never have any firmness or uniformity which is not
governed by one main spring.
The distinction between social and private prayers has been observed
in those inserted in this volume; for private converse, even with our heavenly
Father, without being familiar, ought to be more interesting than the petitions
offered up by a common general voice.
In the preface to a book designed for females we may, with the greatest
propriety, introduce a quotation from an essay which does honour to a female
pen:
'Philosophy represents the Deity in too abstracted a manner
to engage our affections.
'A Being without hatred and without fondness, going on in one steady
course of even benevolence, neither delighted with praises, nor moved by
importunity, does not interest us so much as a character open to the feelings
of indignation, the soft relentings of mercy, and the partialities of particular
affections. We require some common nature, or at least the appearance of
it, on which to build our intercourse. It is also a fault of which philosophers
are often guilty, that they dwell too much in generals. Accustomed to reduce
e every thing to the operation of general laws, they turn our attention
to larger views, attempt to grasp the whole order of the universe; and,
in the zeal of a systematic spirit, seldom leave room for those / particular
and personal mercies which are the food of gratitude. They trace the great
outline of nature, but neglect the colouring which gives warmth and beauty
to the piece. As in poetry it is not vague and general description, but
a few striking circumstances clearly related and strongly worked up; as
in a landscape it is not such a vast extensive range of country as pains
the eye to stretch to its limits, but a beautiful well-defined prospect,
which gives the most pleasure - so neither are those unbounded views, in
which philosophy delights, so much calculated to touch the heart as home
views and nearer objects. The philosopher offers up general praises on
the altar of universal nature; the devout man, on the altar of his heart,
presents his own sighs, his own thanksgivings, his own earnest desires:
the former worship is more grand, the latter more personal and affecting.
'He has impressed me with the idea of trust and confidence, and my heart
flies to him in danger; of mercy to forgive, and I melt before him in penitence;
of bounty to bestow, and I ask of him all I want or wish for. I may make
use of an inaccurate expression, I may paint him to my imagination too
much in the fashion of humanity; but, while my heart is pure, while I depart
not from the line of moral duty, the error is not dangerous. Too critical
a spirit is the bane of every thing great or pathetic. In our creeds let
us be guarded, let us there weigh every syllable; but, in compositions
addressed to the heart, let us give freer scope to the language of the
affections, and the overfiowing of a warm and generous disposition.'
It has been a custom too prevalent to make children learn by rote long
passages from authors, to whose very expressions they could not annex an
idea, not considering how vain, and indeed cruel it is, to compel them
to repeat a round of unintelligible words. Parents are often led astray
by the eelfish desire of having a wonderful child to exhibit; but these
monsters very seldom make sensible men or women: the wheels are impaired
by being set in motion before the time pointed out by nature, and both
mind and body are ever after feeble. If, however, a girl be inclined to
commit poems, etc. to memory, let me warn the fond mother not to persuade
her to display this trifling attainment in company; for the young and thoughtless
will seldom endeavour, by virtue and propriety of behaviour, to deserve
praise, when they can obtain it at such an easy rate. Nay, if they wished
them to learn to read well, they would not require them to run over emphatical
expressions with the same voice: to teach them just tones, as far as a
parrot can be taught, is still worse; for it will infallibly render them
affected: and though we do not see the wires we discern that they are mere
puppets. Should it then be thought necessary to exercise the memory - pray
chuse a simple tale or fable, and many children will find them so entertaining
that they will instinctively vary their tones; but let them only be repeated
to a mother or governess, if you do not mean to light a spark you will
not easily extinguish when it has quietly spread through the whole mass.
When a girl arrives at a more advanced age it would be still more useful
to make her read a short lesson, and then transcribe it from her memory;
and afterwards let her copy the original, and lead her to remark the mistakes
she has made. This method would exercise the memory and form the judgment
at the same time: she would learn to write correctly, and retain the precepts
which in some measure she has composed herself, and a kind of emulation
would be excited from which no bad consequences could possibly flow. If
this employment is allowed to occupy two mornings every week, at the end
of four or five years the understanding will have received great strength,
and the pupil will express herself both in speaking and writing, provided
she has a tolerable capacity, with a degree of propriety that will astonish
those that have not adopted the same plan. She will understand English,
and express her sentiments in her native tongue; instead of which our young
ladies of fashion write a mixture of French and Italian, and speak the
same jargon.
If my young readers, for whom this collection is principally intended,
would listen to me a few moments, I would endeavour to prove to them that
the most sedulous attention to the person will never improve it, whilst
a cultivated mind renders the most graceful form more pleasing: - What
do I say? - there is no grace without it; nor any beauty, that will charm
for half an hour, which does not arise from an artless display of virtue
or sense. - But it is not necessary to speak to display mental charms -
the eye will quickly inform us if an active soul resides within; and a
blush is far more eloquent than the best turned period.
Exterior accomplishments are not to be obtained by imitation, they must
result from the mind, or the deception is soon detected, and admiration
gives place to contempt. If you wish to be loved by your relations and
friends, prove that you can love them by governing your temper; good humour
and cheerful gaiety will then enliven every feature and dimple your cheeks
- but this my young friends is not the work of a day. An attention to truth
gives dignity to the manners: and a dependence on Providence banishes those
fears which render many girls very ridiculous, and make them appear as
insignificant as they are helpless; if they do not endeavour to conquer
them they will forfeit the esteem of those whose protection they most want-
the good and the wise.
Another observation I must here be allowed to dwell on; supposing a
young lady has received the best education, she has advanced but a few
steps towards the improvement of her mind and heart - that is the business
of her whole life; she must not mistake and call blossoms fruit, for the
summer often proves the hopes of spring fallacious; and it must ripen the
most promising to give it real value. The plenty of autumn only rewards
the industrious, and industry is never irksome when it becomes habitual.
As we are created accountable creatures we must run the race ourselves,
and by our own exertions acquire virtue: the utmost our friends can do
is to point out the right road, and clear away some of the loose rubbish
which might at first retard our progress. - If, conquering indolence and
a desire of present enjoyment, we push forward, not only the tranquil joy
of an approving conscience will cheer us here, but we shall anticipate
in some degree, while we advance to it, that happiness of which we can
form no conception in our present state, except when we have some faint
glimpse from the pleasures arising from benevolence, and the hope of attaining
more perfect knowledge. - We are indeed all children educated by a beneficent
Father for his kingdom - some are nearer the awful close than others, to
their advice the young should listen - for respectable is the hoary head
when found in the path of virtue. |